“Say what you want, as long as Auntie can do it, she will help you, and even if Auntie can’t, you still have two cousins who can find a way to help you.”
Hai Tong laughed, “I don’t need two cousins, Auntie will do. Auntie often goes to parties, right? I would like to shamelessly ask my aunt to take me with her to parties in the future.”
Mrs. Shang understood her meaning and said, “That’s no problem. Usually, when Aunt Shang goes to parties, she asks Xiao Fei to accompany me, but she refuses to do so because she thinks those people are hypocritical and she is too lazy to go around.”
“Whether it’s this circle or any other circle, who wouldn’t wear a mask to be a person? It’s the same, those who can help themselves, they try their best to please, those who can’t help themselves but can’t offend, they don’t offend, those who can’t help themselves and are not as good as themselves, they put up a high and mighty front, not afraid to offend at all.”
“You just have to understand that everyone is for profit. Don’t trust just anyone, you can’t be defensive and you can’t be harmful, but if someone tries to harm you, you don’t have to hold back, fight back bravely and let people know you are not a bully.”
Hai Tong nodded her head repeatedly.
“Why don’t you let War Yin take you with him?”
Mrs Shang asked curiously.
If Hai Tong could come to her today, she knew that Hai Tong was trying to fit in with Zhan Yin’s circle and was working hard for her and Zhan Yin’s future.
After a silent moment, Hai Tong said, “Zhan Yin has a domineering temperament, I followed him to the banquet and couldn’t see through people’s hearts.”
War Yin will protect her, and no one dares to provoke her in front of War Yin, she will not be able to see through those who can interact, that this person can not interact.
She wants to live with War Yin for the rest of her life, in the future, there will definitely be times when she goes to banquets alone, if she doesn’t feel through, when she goes to banquets alone, she will easily be calculated and pitted.
Hai Tong also wants to try to see if she can adapt to that kind of circle full of hypocritical calculations.
Mrs. Shang thought about it and said, “It’s also true, don’t look like the high society people are very cultivated, they are all smiling tigers, they say one thing to your face and some can dig a hole for you right to your face.”
“They’re also very exclusive, they don’t let people into their circles easily, how many wives of rich people have tried to get involved with the wives of those big giants, and they despise them.”
“The status of the war family is there, you are the first young grandmother of the war family, openly, they will not do anything to you, secretly calculating you, that is not easy to say, since you decided to live with war Yin for the rest of your life, all these, you must personally face and adapt, and also learn to fight back, even if war Yin is not by your side, you can stand invincible.”
“That way, your position in Guancheng’s high society will be stable, and it will be beneficial for you to take charge of the War family’s back house in the future and become a qualified wife in charge.”