“If it was two months ago, I’m sure she would have divorced quickly and never looked back, but now, I don’t think she’s going to get a clean divorce and walk away, relationships, they’re not that easy to let go of.”
After a pause, Sunan asked rather nosily, “Did you get her pregnant?”
War Yin: “…… No pregnancy.”
Neither of them were using contraception, and he was trying very hard to make a baby, but it just wasn’t happening.
Perhaps there wasn’t enough of a bond with the child.
“Then without a child to act as a knob, it’s up to you. War Yin, you’re not stupid, the series of actions you’ve made since it happened are just your instinctive reactions, ask yourself, if you were Hai Tong, what would you feel if you were tricked and then subjected to her house arrest and cleaved unconscious?”
“Now, it’s not a matter of discussing whether you cheated her or not, this issue is not big or small, the main thing is that the series of actions you took after doing something wrong made it hard for Hai Tong’s heart.”
“She wants a divorce and you’re afraid of it, but can you stop it by putting her under house arrest like this? That will only push your conflict to its highest point.”
“You should stop keeping her under house arrest, separate for a few days, both couples should calm down, and you should think calmly about what you can do later to make Haitong trust you again, because this deception of yours has left her with no trust in you.”
“When she calms down, she will remember how good you were, the little bits and pieces of your life along the way, and how you were there for her whenever she was in trouble, as well as helping out, these are all bits and pieces of your life as a couple.” m.
“Remembering how good you were, and you working hard to restore her trust in you, won’t that break the ice? With you keeping her under house arrest, she keeps thinking of your shortcomings, of your deceptions, of the things you do for her that she can’t think of.”
“And you shouldn’t say she’s like that, many people are like that, when one person scolds another, all they must think about is what the other person isn’t, so she’ll just keep scolding and scolding, and in the midst of scolding, who remembers how good the other person used to be to them? It’s all going to be transient amnesia.”
War Yin was silent and seemed to be in deep thought.
“War Yin, think about it properly. In fact, being deceived, apologizing and being angry for a few days will pass, you and sister-in-law got so stiff, the fault lies in the series of actions behind you, that is adding fuel to the fire, adding to the mistake.”
“I won’t say what Madam Sister-in-law thinks, anyway, if it were me, I would have to be split unconscious and put under house arrest after being cheated on, I would hate it with a passion.”
“Put your heart into it.”
“You came over in a hurry, have you eaten? You haven’t eaten much in the last two days, I take it? Want to go out to dinner? It’s on me.”
War Yin shook his head and said, “I can’t eat right now either.”
“Has Madam Sister-in-law gone on a hunger strike?”
“That’s not true, she is the one who will eat even if the sky is falling.”
Sunan smiled, “That’s good, people are food-oriented, they have to eat even when the sky is falling, don’t starve yourself.”
“She is thinking that she has to eat and drink enough to have the strength to fight me.”
“You don’t use the word confrontation, that’s like enemies, you’re a couple, not enemies, it’s just a bit of conflict, how many couples have not had a single conflict in their long lives?”
“Couples quarrel at the end of the bed and make up, it passes slowly.”
War Yin looked at his best friend and said, “Sunan, you obviously don’t even have an official girlfriend, yet you can go and become a love counselor and marriage expert.”
Su Nan laughed: “I’m just the authority, the onlooker is clear, in fact, except for you two couples now trapped in the pit, we onlookers are very clear, War Yin, your attitude needs to be changed, that domineering angles sharpened.”