The old lady laughed, “I’ve long since seen it, when Dongming didn’t admit to liking you, he thought he was fond of Yangyang, and was gentle with you because you’re Yangyang’s mother, perhaps, he started out liking Yangyang as a child, and only slowly grew to like you later.”
Hai Ling’s face reddened and said, “Grandma War, I don’t have any thoughts about Mr Lu, Mr Lu always confessed his feelings to me, and I politely rejected his feelings.”
“Is it because of Mrs Lu? She’s a person who actually doesn’t have bad intentions, it’s just that the idea of a door-to-door marriage is deeply rooted. To be honest, marriage is still better when the door is right, and I can’t blame her for insisting.”
“I also think that marriage is still better when the door is right, I’m not the right person for Mr Lu, and I’ve really never wanted to have something with Mr Lu. I’m just an ordinary tenant who rents his shop.”
Hai Ling didn’t have the idea of flying up the branch to become a phoenix.
It was her sister’s good fortune if she could fly to the branch, but she didn’t want to pursue it.
It is the sister’s life is good, in-laws up and down did not dislike the sister, but the sister’s pressure is also very big, if not the couple’s relationship is good, Hai Ling dare to say that the sister is not willing to withstand so much pressure, has long been with the war Yin a clap two apart.
They are ordinary people, just want to live an ordinary life.
“Grandma War tell you a word from her heart, other people may not be suitable for you, but Dong Ming is suitable for you, he is from a wealthy family, and was very rebellious in his youth, ran away from home for many years, and has suffered outside.”
“He can live the plain life you want with you, he is very low-key in his material life, except for his fondness for buying luxury cars, he doesn’t have much luxury to pursue, it’s very easy for him to integrate into your life.”
Hai Ling said after a moment of silence, “Grandma War, I am someone who has experienced a failed marriage, Zhou Honglin and I have known each other for more than ten years, we have been in love for several years, and our marriage for more than three years, all of which have ended in divorce, I am no longer looking forward to my marriage, or to love.”
“I don’t need to marry again, I don’t need to find a man to rely on, my current life is quite good, besides earning money, my biggest wish is that Yangyang can become a success, what marriage brings to a woman is not necessarily happiness, very often it is harm, it is toil.”
“In marriage, often the sacrifice is a woman, like when I quit my job to raise a baby at home, give birth to a baby, bring up a child, become a full-time wife, but what do I get? Disconnected from society, surrounded by my husband and children every day, no time or mood to dress up again.”
“If I’m not careful, I’ve become a yellow face, I’ve paid so much, but in other people’s eyes, I still have nothing to do, when my child cries, I’m blamed for not coaxing my child, when my child is sick, I’m blamed for not being able to take care of my child, and I’m told that I can’t even take care of my child when I’m at home every day.”
“Spend money, only know how to spend in a small home, only know how to spend on the husband and children, but they can not afford to spend two cents on themselves, and occasionally for their own change of a new clothes, will also be scolded by the husband, scolded me and nothing off, what new clothes are needed.”
“Reaching out to ask for money for the family, always the words ‘can’t you spend less, what did you buy again, so quickly spent all the money’, as if I have coveted a lot of money, always have to look at my husband’s face.”
“Knowing that I have no income, but also with me AA, I sacrificed so much for love, for marriage, for the family, in return for people with me AA, as if I took advantage of the sky. Both want me to go out to work and make money, but also want me to continue to be the family’s free nanny.”
Hai Ling summarised her own failed marriage as she asked the old lady, “Grandma War, if you were me, would you still believe in marriage and love? The original couple are living like this, not to mention the halfway couple.”
“I don’t want to remarry, at least for these few years, I won’t consider marrying again, Grandma War, if Mr Lu never dies, I’ll have to ask for your old man’s help, to introduce me to a man to cooperate with me in my acting, so that Mr Lu will die.”
Old lady: “In an ordinary man’s marriage, a woman pays a lot, it’s okay that her husband can understand, and it’s very chilling that her husband can’t, which is probably why many women don’t want to marry.”
“There is no need to rush now, you first give Dong Ming a chance, if you have not been able to accept him and want him to die, Grandma will then help you arrange for someone to act with you, Grandma has always felt that Dong Ming and Zhou Honglin are not the same.”
Hai Ling smiled to herself and said, “I was once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of a well rope. Mr Lu is good now, but who knows in the future? In the beginning, Zhou Honglin was also very good, I never dreamt that one day, I would divorce him.”
Before the divorce also made a mess.
He was slightly successful in his career, pocket a little money, the heart is wild, derailed Ye Jiani.
Lu Dongming is richer than Zhou Honglin, or from a wealthy family, Hai Ling is really can not believe that Lu Dongming can not change his heart for her life.