Everyone has flaws and strengths that others can’t match.
When we meet people who are better than ourselves, we may be envious, we may be jealous, and we may be ashamed of ourselves.
However, if there is a type of person who will think about their own shortcomings and flaws all the time, and feel that they are no match for others or even have no face, and cannot hold their head up when they walk, this is a strong inferiority complex.
People with low self-esteem, however, behave differently.
No matter what others say, he will a*sociate himself with them, extremely sensitive and fragile.
Ji Feng also heard what Liu Xie said when he arrived, and he took it for granted that Li Yueqin opposed his sister’s affair with him because his family had no money and he was too poor, and he even became very emotional, and in his heart he was afraid that he felt humiliated.
This was indeed a bit too inferior!
“People can’t be without flaws, everyone has them, so I don’t have high requirements for your sister to find a boyfriend, as long as the person is decent, treats your sister well and doesn’t lead a too hard life.”
Li Yueqin sighed, “As for whether the family is rich or not, how successful he will be in the future, these are not so important, as long as your sister feels good, and the two of them can get along together and live their little life happily in the future, that’s enough. Otherwise, if people don’t treat your sister well, what can they do even if they have a million dollars?”
Ji Feng nodded slightly, pitying the heart of the parents.
“But this little Liu has too low self-esteem.”
Li Yueqin shook her head and said, “He may look like he has strong self-esteem to outsiders, but in reality, many people can’t tell the difference between self-esteem and low self-esteem, and this little Liu is one of them. A man can be incompetent, but he must not have an inferiority complex, or he won’t be able to stand up straight! I can’t let your sister live with a man like that for the rest of her life!”
Ji Feng said, “Auntie, have you told my sister all these things?”
Li Yueqin nodded and said, “Why didn’t I say that.”
Ji Feng asked, “Then can she listen to it? What does she think about it?”
Li Yueqin shook her head and said, “She, alas! Your sister’s character you should know, she is the kind of soft-hearted person, and soft, and this little Liu will coax her, a few good words, all day long sweet and sweet, don’t all little girls like these?”
Ji Feng then couldn’t help but laugh.
“Later on, after I came into contact with this little Liu a few times, I realized that this little Liu was too inferior, so I also told your sister about it, and I saw that she listened to it.” Li Yueqin said, “But as far as your sister’s character is concerned, how can she let go of it just like that? Her heart doesn’t know how hard it is.”
Ji Feng slowly nodded his head, for a person who takes relationships seriously, the end of every relationship will be a painful torture, humans are emotional animals, no one can avoid this.
Whether it was a sour and somewhat sweet crush, or a strong and pa*sionate love, it was all the same.
Of course, those who just play around and never know what emotions are all about, naturally do not have such feelings.
But Li Yantong is obviously not this kind of person, so Ji Feng can completely understand what it would be like for her to be torn up in her heart about breaking up with a person she likes.
Then, it wasn’t incomprehensible to break up with someone.
“So, did my sister she really recognize the nature of this Liu XXX, or did she just listen to you?” Ji Feng asked.
“The way I see it, I’m afraid she’s only doing it to listen to me.”
Li Yueqin couldn’t help but shake her head and said, “I’ve lived most of my life and can see some things clearly, but your sister has only just come into contact with society after all, so how can she tell so clearly?”
Ji Feng said, “Then why don’t you just let her recognize the nature of Liu XXX?”
Li Yueqin shook her head and said, “How can it be that easy? This girl might have been coaxed into a dizzy state by a few words from Xiao Liu, so how can she still see clearly?”
Ji Feng then smiled and nodded, indeed, people who fell in love had a drastic drop in IQ, how could they think calmly?
“She will always see clearly.” Ji Feng said, “At that time, she will be able to understand your good intentions.”
“But it’s not a solution for her to drag on like this.” Li Yueqin said, “What I’m most worried about now is your sister’s personal problems, she’s also at the age of marriage, and many people her age have children who are already a few years old ……”
Ji Feng laughed: “Auntie, you don’t need to rush, my sister is so outstanding, she definitely needs to find the best one, she ah, it’s fate has not arrived yet.”
“Ugh!”
Li Yueqin just couldn’t help but shake her head, fate hadn’t arrived yet, I really didn’t know when it would.
Li Yantong came back quickly and was very happy to see Ji Feng. Even though the two siblings did not see each other much, the kind of blood kinship that originated from their bones still easily allowed them to establish a good relationship, so Li Yantong and Ji Feng got along very well.
“Ji Feng, talk to your sister and persuade her as well.” Li Yueqin gave Ji Feng a wink and turned around to go cook, leaving Ji Feng with a dark, bitter smile.
Letting himself persuade his sister? Frankly speaking, Ji Feng really didn’t know how to ask.
It wasn’t that Ji Feng was afraid of his sister’s anger, but because he didn’t know anything about the person called Liu XXX, so he couldn’t make a rash comment.
If it were Xiao Yu, Ji Feng could say a few words, such as yesterday’s situation, Ji Feng could see at a glance that the man called Ou Hai was not pure-minded, and that pursuing Xiao Yu might not be the first priority in terms of feelings, so he could give Xiao Yu a warning.
But about this Liu XXX, he knew almost nothing.
“Little Feng, did my mother say something to you?” Li Yantong asked in a low voice.
“Didn’t say anything either, just about that buddy called Liu XXX, Auntie said a few words.” Ji Feng laughed, “Sis, how come you didn’t even tell me when you fell in love.”
“I knew that’s what she was talking about!”
Li Yantong was then a bit speechless and said helplessly, “I’ve already promised her not to get involved with Liu XXX, and she’s still not sure!”
Ji Feng laughed, “Sister, don’t complain, Auntie is doing this for your own good, Auntie has enough life experience, she must see people more clearly than we do, she won’t harm you, right?”
Li Yantong said bitterly, “I understand. But in this matter of emotions, sometimes you don’t have to use reason to judge, Little Feng, you should understand when I say this, their previous generation looks at emotions differently from us.”
Ji Feng nodded and said, “Well, I agree with that. But what auntie said is actually not without reason, sis, I still agree with auntie’s opinion, you can first distance yourself from that Liu 30 and try to look at him with a kind of onlooker’s eyes, if you still think he’s good at that time, then it’s really good.”
Li Yantong asked, “Little Feng, after listening to your aunt, do you also think Liu thirty is not good, that’s why you advised me like this?”
Ji Feng laughed: “Whether it’s good or not, you’ll only know after you’ve pulled away and seen it, or you’ll only know if you’ve been really close for a while, but I think it’s best to pull away a little, so it’s too late to regret it.”
Li Yantong naturally understood what Ji Feng meant beyond the words, her pretty face reddened a bit and she glared at Ji Feng, “Brat, you think sister is that undisciplined, huh?”
Ji Feng just smiled, it was good to hear and understand.
Next, the two siblings did not continue this topic, but chatted idly, after all, this matter is still a personal relationship issue, others can give advice, but can not make decisions for her, even if they are close siblings.
Moreover, Ji Feng came here this time because he had something else to say, and he decided to work through his sister first.
“What?”
Li Yantong was a little surprised at her words, she hurriedly lowered her voice, glanced back at the kitchen and found that her mother was in the kitchen and did not notice, only then did she ask in a low voice, “Attending cousin’s wedding?”
“Yes, second brother is getting married, dad wants you and auntie to attend as well, and has specifically called me.”
Ji Feng said, and without waiting for Li Yantong to speak, he hurriedly added, “Sister, I know you might be conflicted in your heart, but no matter what, we are always close siblings, and Ji Shaolei is also your cousin, so it is only natural to attend his wedding.”
Li Yantong then fell silent, her expression somewhat complicated: “Little Feng, this is too sudden, I’m not mentally prepared ……”
“I understand.”
Ji Feng nodded and said, “But, think about it sister, your life is good now, but dad is still around after all, you can’t just not see him for the rest of your life, besides no matter how much you reject it, this fact can’t be changed, don’t you think so.”
Li Yantong was still silent.
A moment later, she said, “Little Feng, can you let me think about it, it’s too sudden!”
Ji Feng immediately nodded his head, “Of course it’s okay. Sister, there is no way for us as juniors to change how things were in the past, since we can’t change them, then we have to learn to adapt, at least, living a happy life is the most important thing.”
Li Yantong nodded silently, her education level was even higher than Ji Feng’s, so why didn’t she understand this truth?
“Actually ……”
Li Yantong hesitated for a moment and suddenly said, “He …… he came to see me.”
“Hmm?”
Ji Feng was stunned: “Who?”
Li Yantong said, “It’s …… him.”
Seeing the somewhat complicated look on his sister’s face, Ji Feng suddenly had a bright flash of light in his mind and instantly understood who she was referring to when she said this ‘he’, he immediately asked, “Sis, you mean that dad came to see you?”
Li Yantong nodded, “…… hmm.”
As she spoke, there was still some unnaturalness, the word dad, she could not yet call out, because she had not felt the warmth that these two words brought since she was a child, but her emotions at the moment were extraordinarily complicated.
When Ji Feng smiled, he couldn’t help but be surprised and asked, “Sis, when did dad come to see you?”
