“By the way, I almost forgot one thing, Xiaojun, the one in my family wants to match you, it’s a colleague in his company, about the same age as him, said to be high value, high salary, family background is also good, because work is too busy, has not been in a relationship.”
Shen Xiaojun: “…… You two couples are going to hold the red thread for me?”
“He mentioned a mouth to me like this, I heard him say that the conditions of the man are not bad, if you want to meet, I will ask him to arrange a meeting time for you, if you do not want to meet, I will help you push off.”
Shen Xiaojun thought about it, this was the first time that her best friend and his wife had given her a match, and it was Mr. War’s colleague, that is, he worked in the War Group, from the sound of it, he knew that he was a working elite, not a rich second generation.
It’s not defensive to meet, at least give your best friend this face.
“Does he have any pros and cons?”
“The pros have been said, the cons are that they love to get together and gossip a little bit, these two things, I think we all have, we usually go out, see the roadside around a large number of people, will also go over to see the hustle and bustle, gossip gossip a few.”
Hai Tong paused and added, “Also a bit talkative, just can talk.”
Shang Xiaofei teased Shen Xiaojun, “Xiaojun, you really need to go and take a look, listening to Hai Tong talking, I even think this man is quite excellent, once you lie at Mrs. Duan’s banquet, the odds are that you will not have a chance with the gentry, so pick a workplace elite.”
“I didn’t want to marry a rich family in the first place, and a rich family is not something I can marry just because I want to, although my sister looks quite beautiful, but not up to the state of national beauty, magnificent, it’s better to marry an ordinary person and live a mediocre life, and still be a little bit happy.”
Most people on the outside are unaware of the married life of a luxurious family.
Shen Xiaojun had seen a lot of her aunt’s difficulties because she was married to a wealthy family, and she did not want to get involved in her aunt’s dust.
Shang Xiaofei comes from a wealthy family, she knows better than anyone else, she said: “In fact, marriage is better when the family is right, if the gap is too big, it is difficult to reconcile, at the beginning of the marriage, the feelings are still deep, maybe both sides can tolerate each other, after a long time, the passion is gone, the problems brought by the reality gap are exposed, the couple can easily go against each other.”
“Unless you are very good, can stand up, can take power, so that people dare not despise. My mother used to say that if a woman wants to not be underestimated or bullied in a marriage, either she is strong enough or her mother’s family is strong enough.”
After a pause, Shang Xiaofei added: “There are individual gentry who do not care about the right family, but only about fate, and the elders will not be strong enough to sway their children’s marriage, but such gentry are few and far between.”
Of the several big gentry in Guancheng, the War family is the only one that can do this.
Shang Xiaofei knew that her own family could not even do this. Her sister-in-law dared to love and hate, yet she also grew up in a wealthy family and was a match for their merchants.
Her mother was raised in an orphanage, but her mother was strong enough to conquer her father’s with her personal charm.
