In fact, Li Yueqin also likes Ji Feng very much, although Ji Feng is a gentry, but is courteous and simple, after many contacts Li Yueqin can also see that Ji Feng is not the kind of person with a heavy heart, treating Li Yantong when he is very sincere, Li Yueqin in his heart is also considered to accept Ji Feng.
However, Ji Feng saw that his sister Li Yantong’s face was not too good and seemed a bit depressed ……
“Sister, I see that you seem to be in a bad mood?”
Ji Feng asked.
Li Yantong then couldn’t help but look gloomy and just shook her head, not saying anything.
Seeing this, Ji Feng couldn’t help but ask, “Sister, did something happen? You won’t even tell me?”
“You just don’t ask!” Li Yantong couldn’t help but shake her head, “This is something …… you can’t solve either.”
“You haven’t even said it yet, so how do you know I can’t solve it?” Ji Feng laughed, “It might be a problem here with you, but it might be easily solved here with me? Right?”
“Ugh ……”
Li Yantong still didn’t say anything and just looked at her mother.
Ji Feng was then a little surprised, looking at his sister’s appearance, it seemed that this matter was still related to Auntie Li?
He suddenly remembered that it was most likely related to his sister’s emotional problems, because the last time he came, the two of them, mother and daughter, were having some not-so-good trouble over Li Yantong’s emotional problems.
“Little Feng, just don’t ask her, let me tell you.”
As expected, Li Yueqin couldn’t help herself next to her and said, “Your sister is in a bad mood because she did something wrong and was criticised by me.”
Li Yantong snapped, “Mom!”
Li Yueqin, however, ignored her daughter’s gesture and said, “Here’s the thing, last time I told you that your sister had broken up with that guy called Liu XXX, in fact that was a lie on her part, I only found out later that she and that Liu XXX were still secretly dating!”
When Ji Feng smiled, he couldn’t help but look at his sister Li Yantong, but wasn’t too surprised, because Li Yantong had already told him when he came last time that she and Liu XXX were still in contact. And last time when Ji Feng came he happened to run into Liu XXX who was begging Li Yueqin to be able to promise him and his sister something.
But now it seemed that it should be that this matter had been discovered by Li Yueqin.
“Then …… what do you think?!” Ji Feng asked.
“My thoughts are still the same as before, that young man called Liu XXX is not bad, but it is not suitable for your sister.” Li Yueqin said, “So what, I let them split up.”
“Mum!”
Li Yantong snapped, “Do you know Liu Xie?”
Li Yueqin said, “I don’t need to understand him, Xiaotong, although mum doesn’t have much knowledge, but no matter what, she has lived half a lifetime and has seen all kinds of people, that young man called Liu XXX, I don’t mind that he has no money and his family is poor, nor do I mind anything else about him, but his personality, I don’t like very much!”
“But ……”
Li Yantong was just about to speak when she was interrupted by Li Yueqin.
Only to hear Li Yueqin say, “Xiaotong, in fact it doesn’t matter whether I like it or not, because finding someone you like is the most important thing. Of course mum understands this, but this Liu XXX really isn’t suitable for you.”
“Why?!”
Li Yantong said, “Is it just like you said, he’s just because of his personality, so you think it’s not suitable between the two of us?”
Li Yueqin said, “That’s right.”
“Then you’re being unreasonable!” Li Yantong said in an exasperated voice, “Mom, Liu XXX’s character is very strong and motivated, I really don’t know what it is about him that you’re not happy with!”
Li Yueqin sighed lightly and said, “Xiaotong, haven’t I told you enough to understand? Liu 30 is good in every way, but he has too much inferiority complex! People with low self-esteem have a very weak heart, and with low self-esteem comes selfishness.
“Think about it, what does a person with low self-esteem look like in life?”
Li Yueqin said, “It may appear on the surface that such a person has strong self-esteem, but are you sure that he can distinguish between self-esteem and low self-esteem? A person with low self-esteem, perhaps a word you unintentionally say in your life, or any small thing, may touch his very sensitive nerves, resulting in either a quarrel or a cold war!”
“Once or twice is fine, what if there are more times?” Li Yueqin asked, “After a long time and more times, the feelings between you will fade, then what will be the final result?!”
Li Yantong listened and was silent.
But looking at her expression, there was something not quite believable.
Ji Feng watched and couldn’t help but sigh lightly in his heart, in this regard, he felt that what Li Yueqin said was right.
Of course, up to now he had only met the one called Liu Thirty once, and neither of them had even said a word to each other, so Ji Feng couldn’t say how the one called Liu Thirty really was, whether he had low self-esteem or not.
But if Li Yueqin was right and said that he was treating, and that Liu XXX was indeed a person with a very low self-esteem inside, then Li Yueqin was right to stop her sister from being with him!
A person with a strong inferiority complex on the inside, what often shows on the outside may be a strong self-esteem, but when such a person is interacting with others, perhaps just a thoughtless remark from others will touch his sensitive nerves.
Some people with particularly low self-esteem may even do very radical things at certain times, and such cases often occur.
So at this point, Ji Feng was more inclined in his heart towards Li Yueqin’s approach.
“Sister, do you really understand Liu XXX?”
Finally, Ji Feng spoke up and said, “I don’t understand how this person is, but there is one thing, I think that no matter what you are Auntie’s only daughter, she would never harm you, right?”
Li Yantong said, “Little brother, I don’t mean that, but …… my mum really doesn’t understand Liu XXX, he doesn’t have as low a self-esteem as she says!”
“Then what if it is?” Ji Feng asked.
“What if ……”
Li Yantong shook her head and said, “This kind of thing is yes or no, where’s the if?!”
Li Yueqin smiled and immediately wanted to speak, Ji Feng hurriedly gave her a wink, indicating that she should not say anything first, and then said, “Sister, then let’s take a step back, if we say that this person called Liu XXX is not very inferior, then think carefully about what he usually does, his speech and mannerisms and other aspects, is he a very confident person?”
Li Yantong couldn’t help but stare at her words, Ji Feng’s words took her a bit by surprise, as she had really never thought about it from this aspect.
Li Yueqin also couldn’t help but be slightly surprised, she also didn’t expect Ji Feng to speak from this angle, but soon she understood what Ji Feng meant and couldn’t help but secretly nod her head, this method of Ji Feng might really work.
Seeing that his sister was a bit dazed, Ji Feng smiled, “Sister, then let’s think about it from another angle, is what Auntie said right? A person who possesses a strong sense of inferiority is usually showing what is basically a strong sense of self-esteem. This is relative, because a person with true self-confidence will not care about a little verbal vilification or suspicion from others.”
Seeing Li Yantong’s thoughtful look, Ji Feng continued, “Sister, think about it, when you were dating Liu XXX, was he ever sensitive in certain aspects, such as when you were talking about money, or about the future and many other aspects, was he ever in certain aspects, when you talked about that issue he acted a little different than usual? ”
“He ……”
Li Yantong opened her mouth, but did not know how to answer. But looking at the slight change of expression on her face, it was obvious that she had been moved by Ji Feng’s words.
Li Yueqin looked secretly happy in her heart, she really did not expect that Ji Feng would actually talk Li Yantong into it.
She naturally knew her own daughter best, don’t look like Li Yantong is usually very soft, but she can be stubborn inside sometimes, for example, this time on the relationship issue is like this, she had already strongly opposed her daughter’s relationship with that person called Liu 30, but who knows her daughter still secretly has contact with Liu 30.
And now, with Ji Feng’s enlightenment, Li Yantong seemed to be showing signs of loosening up!
“Sister, think about it again, is Auntie doing this for your own good?” Ji Feng asked.
“I also know, but at this point she is doing something wrong well, opposing before knowing anything, too overbearing!” Li Yantong said somewhat helplessly.
“Then why did Auntie object?” Ji Feng asked.
“Isn’t that the reason just mentioned, she said Liu Xie has low self-esteem!” Li Yantong said.
Ji Feng, however, shook his head and laughed, “That’s not the most fundamental reason! In fact, the reason why Auntie is against it is because she loves you and is afraid that you will be hurt! In fact, auntie can completely rely on your wishes, you say yes then, whoever you choose she says yes, so that she will neither make you feel resentful nor make Liu XXX hold a grudge, but why does she still want to stop it? …… Am I right?”
Li Yantong was silent.
She glanced at her mother, and seeing the wrinkles on her face, she couldn’t help but remember when she was in Yunshan, when mother and daughter were dependent on each other, and how much her mother loved her, and her eyes couldn’t help but redden a little.
“Sis, you are right to stick to your own choice and want to fight for your love.” Ji Feng continued, “It’s equally right for Auntie to stop it and want to keep a good watch for you, but why did things still come to this point? Who is wrong?”
“……”
Li Yantong could not help but be slightly stunned, yes, who was wrong?
She said, “Is it …… Liu XXX who is wrong?”
Ji Feng shook his head and said, “No, it’s the way you handled the problem that was wrong!”
Li Yantong was stunned again, she didn’t understand what Ji Feng’s words meant.
Ji Feng said, “Let’s put it this way, Auntie thinks that Liu thirty this person has low self-esteem, then she naturally has her reasons, because Auntie has a very rich life experience, she definitely sees people more accurately than you, this point Sister you admit, right?”
